So I've done the math and this is what I know. By July 2014 I will either be a mom, be pregnant or be on the list waiting for a call from the Westside Children's Center about a child needing a home. So that means I could be a mom by next July!!! I want to say I will but not knowing how I'm going to get there is kinda of an obstacle.
So how do I know this. Well I just started my last cycle of IVF. Meaning this is the last cycle of stims I will be doing and the last time I will be retrieving eggs for transfer. Oh and the last time I had to pick up the canister of my Sperm Donor. If my ovaries respond as well this time as they did the last time then the most frozen embryos I will have moving forward is 19 (7 leftover from my last cycle and 12 new ones from this one). If I were to transfer 3 at a time then the most transfers I can do is 4 ( 3/3 and the final one I would transfer all 4). Therefore by the Spring if I'm not pregnant that I'm officially moving onto foster to adopt!!!! I had a meeting last week with the head of foster to adopt at Westside Children's Center and it went great. The guy was extremely helpful and supportive. I've decided that I will start taking the training class in January regardless of where I am in my FET process. I just keep moving this train forward.
I do still believe that this will work. That I will get pregnant!!!! But I wanted to learn about the process whether its for baby #1 or baby #2 or even both. It helps me get through the bad months thinking about what I can do instead of the bad. Not sure if that makes sense, but it does make sense to me.
So night 2 of stims in the books, blood test tomorrow and then we will see.
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